I am 25 now !!
According to life expectancy of a human being on this earth, keeping all the practically aside, I have legally, originally and technically completed 1/4th life as a human.
And being a 25 in India means, a perfect marriage material, everything on this planet will be by default related to the great Olympic event of life called and celebrated as marriage..In simple words "Shadi on my mind"
or
to be more specific.. "shadi on everyone's mind who knows you any how" and the next question after how are you?? will be accompanied with all the back tapping for all the good deeds and achievements will be .. So when are you getting married??
and sadly my reply to this question often break the dreams of people to have wedding dinner. :D
that is atleast 3 years, and leaves them out struck with a question.. "ITNI LATE", "ab toh kar le, tu SETTLE bhi ho gayi hai" ( "THAT'S TOO LATE", "You are settled now, its the perfect time to get married")
Phew!! these sentences are like "how much did you score in 10th board??" in our 11th standard, the most upvoted question in real life by your relatives, family and friends.
But no one actually bothers what exactly that "settled" word means to the person who is constantly bearing forceful advice to get married.
What if the settlement is something I am not looking for...
What if that word settled seems like stoppage in my dreams..
.
.
What if the aim of life is still not known & what if I am still not able to explore who am I exactly, what I really want to do exactly in my life...
What if I am all set to give a new boost to my career and earn as much as I want, and investing all that earned money in travelling this world and write a book ...
What if my aim is to just be aimless, looking endlessly for knowledge, being obsessive for trying every new thing on this planet, being a hippy, being a social worker or being a people's person,, either being whatever I dream for... now , today, tomorrow & everyday till the day I am blessed to be on beautiful planet, the only known planet till today blessed with power to give birth to this amazingly ecstatic thing called "LIFE"...
And luckily, what if in this long journey getting along with a similar sole my Prince Charming :) !!!!, who owns similar insanity as i do, bound by an invisible string popularly called as "Love", no word commitments just two similar hearts looking for similar purpose together, what if time is all set to surprise you with all magnificent experiences and love. :)
I strongly feel, marriage is not the destination of a youngster to achieve, a lot more has to be seen, a lot more has to be explored both inside and out, a lot more people to love and loved by them...
Aur bhi ghum hain zamane me is Ishq ke siwaa..
Hasroton ko rok kaise de us ashiq ke liye jo apna kabhi tha hi nai,
Naye sapne kaise sazaa le jinko hum jaante hi nai,
Manzil phir bhi jaani pehchani hai,
Agar hasil nai kar paye phir bhi koi ghum nai,
Koshish toh puri ki thi,
Wo manzil hi bevafaa nikli...
Koi ghum nai is baat ka,
chalo wo nai mile,
Naye manzil aur dhoondh lenge,
Duniya mai manzilon ki kami nai,
dum hai abhi hai is dil me,
Housale me koi kami nai,
haasil toh kar lenge,
Aaj nai toh kal hi sahi..... :) !!
According to life expectancy of a human being on this earth, keeping all the practically aside, I have legally, originally and technically completed 1/4th life as a human.
And being a 25 in India means, a perfect marriage material, everything on this planet will be by default related to the great Olympic event of life called and celebrated as marriage..In simple words "Shadi on my mind"
or
to be more specific.. "shadi on everyone's mind who knows you any how" and the next question after how are you?? will be accompanied with all the back tapping for all the good deeds and achievements will be .. So when are you getting married??
and sadly my reply to this question often break the dreams of people to have wedding dinner. :D
that is atleast 3 years, and leaves them out struck with a question.. "ITNI LATE", "ab toh kar le, tu SETTLE bhi ho gayi hai" ( "THAT'S TOO LATE", "You are settled now, its the perfect time to get married")
Phew!! these sentences are like "how much did you score in 10th board??" in our 11th standard, the most upvoted question in real life by your relatives, family and friends.
But no one actually bothers what exactly that "settled" word means to the person who is constantly bearing forceful advice to get married.
What if the settlement is something I am not looking for...
What if that word settled seems like stoppage in my dreams..
.
.
What if I am all set to give a new boost to my career and earn as much as I want, and investing all that earned money in travelling this world and write a book ...
What if my aim is to just be aimless, looking endlessly for knowledge, being obsessive for trying every new thing on this planet, being a hippy, being a social worker or being a people's person,, either being whatever I dream for... now , today, tomorrow & everyday till the day I am blessed to be on beautiful planet, the only known planet till today blessed with power to give birth to this amazingly ecstatic thing called "LIFE"...
And luckily, what if in this long journey getting along with a similar sole my Prince Charming :) !!!!, who owns similar insanity as i do, bound by an invisible string popularly called as "Love", no word commitments just two similar hearts looking for similar purpose together, what if time is all set to surprise you with all magnificent experiences and love. :)
I strongly feel, marriage is not the destination of a youngster to achieve, a lot more has to be seen, a lot more has to be explored both inside and out, a lot more people to love and loved by them...
Aur bhi ghum hain zamane me is Ishq ke siwaa..
Hasroton ko rok kaise de us ashiq ke liye jo apna kabhi tha hi nai,
Naye sapne kaise sazaa le jinko hum jaante hi nai,
Manzil phir bhi jaani pehchani hai,
Agar hasil nai kar paye phir bhi koi ghum nai,
Koshish toh puri ki thi,
Wo manzil hi bevafaa nikli...
Koi ghum nai is baat ka,
chalo wo nai mile,
Naye manzil aur dhoondh lenge,
Duniya mai manzilon ki kami nai,
dum hai abhi hai is dil me,
Housale me koi kami nai,
haasil toh kar lenge,
Aaj nai toh kal hi sahi..... :) !!
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