Glass Quarter filled..!!

I am 25 now !!
According to life expectancy of a human being on this earth, keeping all the practically aside, I have legally, originally and technically completed 1/4th life as a human.

And being a 25 in India means, a perfect marriage material, everything on this planet will be by default related to the great Olympic event of life called and celebrated as marriage..In simple words "Shadi on my mind"

or

to be more specific.. "shadi on everyone's mind who knows you any how" and the next question after how are you?? will be accompanied with all the back tapping for all the good deeds and achievements will be .. So when are you getting married??

and sadly my reply to this question often break the dreams of people to have wedding dinner. :D
that is atleast 3 years, and leaves them out struck with a question.. "ITNI LATE", "ab toh kar le, tu SETTLE bhi ho gayi hai" ( "THAT'S TOO LATE", "You are settled now, its the perfect time to get married")

Phew!! these sentences are like "how much did you score in 10th board??" in our 11th standard, the most upvoted question in real life by your relatives, family and friends.

But no one actually bothers what exactly that "settled" word means to the person who is constantly bearing forceful advice to get married.

What if the settlement is something I am not looking for...
What if that word settled seems like stoppage in my dreams..
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What if the aim of life is still not known & what if I am still not able to explore who am I exactly, what I really want to do exactly in my life...

What if I am all set to give a new boost to my career and earn as much as I want, and investing all that earned money in travelling this world and write a book ...

What if my aim is to just be aimless, looking endlessly for knowledge, being obsessive for trying every new thing on this planet, being a hippy, being a social worker or being a people's person,, either being whatever I dream for... now , today, tomorrow & everyday till the day I am blessed to be on beautiful planet, the only known planet till today blessed with power to give birth to this amazingly ecstatic thing called "LIFE"...

And luckily, what if in this long journey getting along with a similar sole my Prince Charming :) !!!!, who owns similar insanity as i do, bound by an invisible string popularly called as "Love", no word commitments just two similar hearts looking for similar purpose together, what if time is all set to surprise you with all magnificent experiences and love. :)  
I strongly feel, marriage is not the destination of a youngster to achieve, a lot more has to be seen, a lot more has to be explored both inside and out, a lot more people to love and loved by them...

Aur bhi ghum hain zamane me is Ishq ke siwaa..
Hasroton ko rok kaise de us ashiq ke liye jo apna kabhi tha hi nai,
Naye sapne kaise sazaa le jinko hum jaante hi nai,
Manzil phir bhi jaani pehchani hai,
Agar hasil nai kar paye phir bhi koi ghum nai,
Koshish toh puri ki thi,
Wo manzil hi bevafaa nikli...

Koi ghum nai is baat ka,
chalo wo nai mile,
Naye manzil aur dhoondh lenge,
Duniya mai manzilon ki kami nai,
dum hai abhi hai is dil me,
Housale me koi kami nai,
haasil toh kar lenge,
Aaj nai toh kal hi sahi..... :) !!

Happy Birthday New Year, You will be missed 2015...

New year, new opportunities, new expectations, New dreams and "NAYE RAASTE"

Again a year is packing its bags to move out from our lives, and we are busy in decorating are lives for welcoming 2016 with a BANG, planning up all the parties to welcome the "NEW YEAR"in the best possible manner with a small expectation that 2016 will be well mannered..

Like that glass of wine that we are planning to gulp on New Year with a thought process of getting drunk till we get on our knees with happiness somewhere still expecting 2016 will be as joyful as that new year party will be..

But how can we forgot the year 2015 that taught us so much that it was successful to prepare ourselves for all the fabulous opportunities  may come and kiss our feet with success..

From PM Modi till ISIS, from Make in India to Maxima Zuckerberg , From France attack till MH 370, a year of ups & downs , happiness and sorrows not only for the world but even to us, giving endless stories tell and share with this world and for all of us personally, few new additions to our Dos & Don'ts list...
Here I am sharing my lesson learnt list from 2015, a land Mark year of my life:-

1) First and Most Important :

Nothing is permanent in this world not even our sorrows, at last I was able to successfully complete n get my professional degree for which I begged and worked hard for almost 4 years, with completion of my  professional exam I was eligible to prefix my name with "CS".

2) Place in the hearts of people for life is much greater award than that trophy on the shelf of drawing room, all thanks to the professional training session of ICSI - The MSOP.

3) You can change the mentality of a person but not his basic nature, as said in the story of frog & Scorpion.

4) Nothing can substitute the charm of old friendships. credit goes to Manish the Monu Kaka & Aditi my Addo.

5) There is no perfect age to explore your interest as said "Jab Jago Tabhi Savera".

6) Hard work never fails, success can be delayed but it is not impossible to achieve.

7) Siblings are the best friends chosen by god and gifted to you, bhaiya thanks always and for everything love you. :)

8) The one who wants to leave will leave no matter how much you put effort to make that relationship work, it will never work out.

9) In office we do get great friends, not all of them are enemies thanks Ishan, Neha & Neha J and yes Baharwali :P :) you were the reason for my survival here. 

10) And last but not the least, travel as much as you can, party hard and work hard, seize the moment, live happily don't wait for those Saturday nights. :) !!!

With all these ten learning I am all set to welcome 2016 with a big hug, and expecting to make full out of this year, making some more additions to my wisdom, some more spice to my life, some more additions to my friends list Sakshi Shiwani welcome and thanks...

Thanks 2015 for making me more mature and maintaining that kid Preeti in me, kissing away my pains and for maintaining my belief over hard work. 

You!!

Little less. little more,

still waiting while looking at the door,

Missing those scoldings, missing that voice,

Calling my name but keeping no choice,

What a birthday is it without you,

what a birthday is it having you as due,

Nothing is lighting nothing is brightening,

escaping this phase which is frightening,

​Parents are the base of living,

keeping faith and creating,

I wish to see you soon maa,

with all faith from eve to dawn,

Little less, little more,

still waiting while looking at the door...

That Extra Mile and One Inch...

He was on the knees,
He was already the undefeated king. and with all the happiness on his face, he thought he knew it all,
But then he realized No!! I still have enough power I can stand and conquer whatever is left in this world,
But yes like many of us he also wanted something to hold up, like a celebrity he cheered the world and made them realize he is ready to rock the world took the support of the wall next to him,
And STOOD..

It was his first step!!

The step the FIRST STEP!! Finally he was standing on his feet, ready to run, crawling was no more his idea and no more his willingness and way to accomplish things..
But suddenly he felt that weakness that fenced him and he fell, again on the floor, again on that same state from where he started,

His mother seeing her piece of heart falling, rushed towards him...

But before she could grab him, he again put that all extra effort which was needed and again stood and even walked claiming his victory against gravity, against those weaker bones, keeping that land under his feet, leaving behind his mark of happiness through his footstep....

"THAT ONE EXTRA EFFORT MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE"

We human beings have a tendency for settling down for something we are not meant for, the only reason is, we never try to push our selves and almost 90% times doubting our own capabilities. abilities and put all the blame on the external factors..
We forget the fact that we are the one who actually took over that first step in our childhood and that was the stepping stone which leads us to walk and run...

Sometimes its hard to say that how many steps are still needed to get what we want, but that's the key, if everyone was capable off to possess such great amount of patience the world could have been a better place and a palace of dreams & admiration...

Some times that first step...
Some times that extra mile and one inch makes all the difference :) ....!!!