Do we really realize that our time is limited on this earth. We the humans are born with a expiry date & shelf life. Still we are too busy in stealing those things that has nothing to do with fulfilling our lives.
That Villa, that swanky car, that one night in club,. Do these things really makes us happy?
that's all we live for? How often we just procrastinate that dinner with our family just to give the best presentation next morning in office, how often we just skip that weekend with friends for that business trip & Client meeting, how often we skip that forgiveness just to save our egos.
And on the death bed, after everything we just realize, the time has gone, where are we, where are the people??
Life goes like a moment, and that moment that we actually spent loving others and receiving that love only remains.
Tuesdays With Morrie..
What a book it was, Mitch the our generation guy, too much engrossed in earning those dollars, moving to bigger better houses, buying that another car, spending almost every moment in work, writing articles and following sports, as we all are.
We all had that dream to follow our heart rather than getting lost in the rat race of the world. Money. power, fame, society, we often get lost in the zeal of building and achieving those dreams that actually was never the real goal. And, even after achieving everything we are peace less, not happy, empty.
& then this old man Morrie, too sick, too tired, and knows his end, knows the fact that he might skip that next breath, and might die at any time. Cannot move his body, cannot do any of his personal work. Totally dependent on others for anything & everything.
Still happy, STILL CONTENDED.
I learnt what my generation is actually loosing to have, and what the actual treasure is. We are used to of substituting our real happiness by buying that material things for the market. We keep on cursing every moment even after having that healthy living, sitting & working for 9 hours and doing the stuff we don't like & appriciate. We cannot even afford to have and share happiness with our buddies just because of the choices we make every now and then.
Life is all about choices and priorities, who cares whether Sachin actually made the century or not, how could it even effect our lives, but we the people kill our time, our supper and everything to follow him religiously.
Tuesdays with Morrie is a kind of book that everyone of our generation must read, so that they can actually differentiate between living the life & counting breath.
Sitting in my room, with this laptop on my lap I am trying hard to write down something, something which is eating me, and something which is successful to draw all my attention... The attention seeker... not even for me but for everyone on this "Tiny blue bright" planet and even tinier our human heads,
From UN to India, from Parliament to that small KG student, everyone is busy in planning, planning something and everything in life,
Planning to sleep
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Planning to get those marks
Planning to eat, planning to drink, planning to get that new Iphone,Planning for vacations, EVEN PLANNING FOR POTTY & PEE......
PLAN PLAN PLAN & PLANNN........
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Planning to crack that interview and bag that 12 LPA job
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Planning to get married..... planning for a baby
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Blah Blah Blah...!!!!
Even the Government...
Five year plans, odd even plan of government, women empowerment, make in India,
Increasing jobs in India, Better GDP, Better Per Capita Income ...PHEWWW..!!!
and even EVERYTHING.......
How often we plan everything, our lives,our next ten years, Five years even the next day.. We keep on weighing every moments to our moods, to our interest to achieve some level in our lives and achieving the
most,but in the middle of everything do we really realize that we are actually loosing the moment which is now, and fetching nothing out of it.
I was addicted to this popular term call planning. When I was 17, I had this crazy plan for whole of my life, and innocence child me was unaware that things & life don't move according to the plans we make, I planned to be police commissioner to achieve a mischievous dream to put my irritating cousin in jail (LOL), but today I don't even want to attempt those civil service exams.
And again I am loosing all my peace to plan my career, my life. The irony is I am clueless about what will happen in the next moment next second still I am planning.
This is human nature and definitely we cannot avoid that. After all the mind jolt I have came across, and all the self "MANTHAN" I did, I came to the conclusion that the reason of our all the planning is expectations. YES "EXPECTATIONS" from everything, even to own self. But this whole planning leaves us somewhere in sorrows and unhappiness, resulting into a situation where we belittle our own sole & capabilities.
I personally have started feeling that often plans put us in a situation, where we are directionless, no matter how much we plan, the change is inevitable, nothing is permanent all thanks to the theory of dynamics, the only thing that we can plan is "Acceptance of Change", because no matter what the planning is how the planning is Nature will have its own rules, Its own games & Destiny will decide it all... All we can do is doing best & being best in our deeds because life is too short for those material goals.
All we need to do is be in moment and be happy, and keeping peace with our soles, not planning but living, living as the way we are, living as the way we want living for happiness, refreshing our hearts with love :)....
